BEYOND THE DISTANCE MARRIAGE
Connection Cards
Great communication takes practice. Choose a deck, take turns answering, and let one good question lead to a conversation you might not have had otherwise.
CURRENT DECK
Everyday Connection
EVERYDAY CONNECTION
What is one part of your day that you wish I knew more about?
HOW TO USE CONNECTION CARDS
Don’t try to finish the deck.
Pick one question and let it take you somewhere. Both spouses should answer. Ask follow-up questions. Be curious. Listen without immediately trying to fix, defend, or move on.
Choose a deck
Pick the kind of conversation that fits where your marriage is today.
Both answer
Connection grows when both spouses are willing to share and listen.
Stay curious
Ask “why?” or “tell me more” instead of rushing to the next card.
Remember: The goal isn't to answer more questions. The goal is to know your spouse better.