Connect with your spouse, use private marriage tools, explore practical
resources, and build rhythms that keep you connected while you're apart.
MY BTD
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Your private space for staying intentionally connected,
wherever work takes you.
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RESOURCE LIBRARY
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Practical guides, conversation tools, checklists, and exercises built
specifically for marriages shaped by work travel.
COUPLE PROFILE
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Connect with your spouse.
Link your two BTD accounts once. After that, either spouse can
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TRIP MODE
Build a rhythm around the trip.
Add the next work trip once and My BTD will help you focus on
what matters before departure, while you're apart, and when you come home.
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When is the next trip?
Add the dates now. Both spouses will see the same Trip Mode.
BEFORE YOU LEAVE
Your next trip
A little preparation now can make the distance feel different.
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Coming Home
RECOMMENDED RIGHT NOW
Before you leave
EDIT TRIP
SHARED PRAYER LIST
Carry what matters together.
Add what you want your spouse praying about, keep the list visible while you're apart,
and remember the ways God answers.
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Start with one thing.
Add something you would like your spouse praying about this week.
DISTANCE CHECK-IN
How are the two of you doing?
Take a few minutes separately. Your answers stay private until
both of you have submitted.
DISTANCE CHECK-IN
Your check-in.
Answer honestly based on how you're feeling right now.
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YOUR PART IS DONE
Waiting for your spouse.
Your answers are saved and hidden. We'll update this page
automatically when your spouse finishes.
Watching for their response
DISTANCE CHECK-IN
Your results are ready.
This isn't a scorecard. Look for places where your experiences
are different and get curious about why.
Talk About It
ONE NEXT STEP
Don't try to fix everything.
Finish by answering one question together:
What is one thing we can do this week to help each other
feel more connected?
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END TOGETHER
Pray for one another.
Thank God for your marriage. Pray specifically about what
your spouse shared and ask for help loving one another well.
YOUR CONNECTION
Last six months.
See how the two of you have described your connection over time.
Previous Check-Ins
THE 10-MINUTE MARRIAGE
Ten minutes. Five intentional conversations.
Get on the phone, FaceTime, or sit together. BTD will guide you
through five simple two-minute conversations.
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2Heart
3Us
4Appreciation
5Prayer
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Life
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TALK ABOUT THIS
What's happening in your world that I might not know?
Catch each other up. The goal isn't solving—it's knowing.
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TEN MINUTES WELL SPENT
You made space for each other.
You didn't need to solve every problem. You slowed down long
enough to know, hear, appreciate, and pray for one another.
Protect the habit of knowing each other.
WHAT DO WE DO RIGHT NOW?
Start with where you actually are.
You don't have to solve your whole marriage tonight.
Choose what's happening right now and take one intentional
step toward each other.
RIGHT NOW
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THEN
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FINALLY
ASK EACH OTHER
DO THIS TONIGHT
TRAVEL DAY TOOLKIT
Don't let departure day happen on autopilot.
Travel days are full of packing, schedules, handoffs, and goodbyes.
Take a few minutes to make sure your marriage doesn't get lost in
the logistics.
TRAVEL DAY TOOLKIT
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BEFORE THE GOODBYE
Say these three things.
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“One thing I appreciate about you right now is…”
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“While we're apart, one way I want to love you well is…”
3.
“One thing you can pray for me about is…”
PRAY BEFORE YOU PART
Take sixty seconds.
Pray for safety, the spouse staying home, the spouse traveling,
your children if you have them, and for your marriage to remain
close while you're apart.
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READY FOR THE DISTANCE
Leave connected.
You can't remove the distance, but you can decide what kind of
marriage you'll carry into it.
A good goodbye gives connection somewhere to begin.
REUNION GUIDE
Coming home shouldn't require mind reading.
You've both been living different versions of the same week.
Before the reunion, talk about what each of you is actually
walking into.
ASK EACH OTHER
EXPECTATION CHECK
Finish these sentences together.
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WELCOME HOME
Reconnect before you recalibrate.
Coming home isn't simply returning to the house. It's two people
learning how to share the same space, responsibilities, and
rhythms again.
Don't expect reunion to be effortless. Make it intentional.
CONNECTION CARDS
Make room for a real conversation.
Pick the kind of conversation you need tonight. Each deck contains
thirty questions designed to help you slow down and know each other better.